To Christmas or Not to Christmas

That is the question.

For much of my childhood, my family celebrated Christmas. We did the whole Santa, reindeer, lights, cookies and milk, gifts, tree thing. My parents even wrote a letter to me in calligraphy as if it were from Santa (cute!).

Then, around when I was seven, they decided to move away from that celebration. There are, as most people know, roots of the holiday in paganism, and they felt it didn't honor God. So, I was enlightened as to the nature of Santa (which I had already suspected by then), and eventually we stopped observing that holiday completely.

Now, with a child and husband of my own, my little family celebrates Christmas. There is no tree, and I don't encourage the whole Santa & reindeer idea. Instead, I try to focus on Jesus as well as I can. We have a figurine set of the manger scene, and the Jesus baby is the only part that isn't stuck to it. Jesus is in the 25th tin of our Advent calendar, and my daughter gets to open it up and put the baby in His manger on Christmas. We read stories about God around that day. Our church has a Christmas Eve program, which reiterates the focus on the birth of Christ for even children with song, dance, and fake snow for the children run around in as it falls.

Our Christmas isn't very traditional, but it is perfect for us.

I honestly don't think either way is incorrect, and as Christians, we must make many decisions about life that may not conform to the ways of the world. As a friend of mine once said, there are closed-handed issues for Christians: those ideas which are essential for being a follower such as believing in God, His grace and salvation, and loving God and others. Then, there are open-handed issues for Christians: those ideas which must be made by each individual and are personal to the way he or she feels called by God. I personally feel Christmas is one of those open-handed issues. As long as you honor God, your Christmas (or lack thereof) is blessed.

Rom. 14:4-9 Who are you to judge someone else’s servant? To their own master, servants stand or fall. And they will stand, for the Lord is able to make them stand. One person considers one day more sacred than another; another considers every day alike. Each of them should be fully convinced in their own mind. Whoever regards one day as special does so to the Lord. Whoever eats meat does so to the Lord, for they give thanks to God; and whoever abstains does so to the Lord and gives thanks to God. For none of us lives for ourselves alone, and none of us dies for ourselves alone. If we live, we live for the Lord; and if we die, we die for the Lord. So, whether we live or die, we belong to the Lord. For this very reason, Christ died and returned to life so that he might be the Lord of both the dead and the living.

What do you think? Do you celebrate? Why or why not? Also, if you do, how do you keep Christ in Christmas?