You've possibly read the book "The Handmaiden's Tale" or even watched the new show. It's a sci-fi dystopian story about a futuristic U.S. which has become an overwhelmingly patriarchal society, deeming women as basically objects for procreation. It's pretty disturbing, to say the least. The worst part of it isn't really the men who carry out this crushing oppression, but the women who subject their own gender to those demeaning roles.
Watching the show (it's been a while since I've read the book), I noticed how the camera would pan to things like churches or religious objects. It made me think, what does God have to do with misogynists? Do people think being a feminist Christian is an oxymoron?
Of course people think this of religion. Many people have not represented God very well in this aspect as they succumb to corruption and power-hungry domination.
It's sad that people think of God as a misogynist because who said God was male? The Bible uses male pronouns as a way to indicate power and authority. The world is patriarchal. Language has adapted to that.
I personally don't believe he's either gender. He's a being above procreation and so has no need for Earthly gender. Why would He hate or denigrate females? Ok, let's look at the moment of creation, when humans were created.
"The Lord God said, 'It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him." Genesis 2:18
Let's look at the Hebrew meanings of the words translated as helper and suitable, shall we?
Helper: Azar = help, further, ally, support, protect, restrain
Suitable: Nagad = in front of, in sight of, opposite to, comparable to as in mate
He needed a being "comparable" or equal to man. So, he created a woman. That's right. The above verse is basically stating that women are equal to men. Notice also that he says it's not good for men to be alone. That's because we are made to be supported, love, and in community with others, just as God is in the Trinity. We are made in His image, after all. Together, men and women share life together.
So, equal means the same, right? Why not just make another man or something? Okay, no. Notice one way to translate the Hebrew word for "suitable" is "opposite to." Another good word might be complementary. The strengths and weaknesses of each offset the strengths and weaknesses of the other. Women are physically weaker (generally) but mental gymnasts (multi-tasking and high pain tolerance for the win!). Men are mental marathoners (singular focus) with low pain tolerance (generally) but more physical prowess. There's a lot more to our complementary features, and they differ from individual to individual.
So, they were equal companions, though different, in the Garden of Eden until everything fell apart. There are hints that their relationship was never the same either. Notice what God says as he throws them out of Eden:
"The LORD God said to the serpent,
'Because you have done this,
Cursed are you more than all cattle,
And more than every beast of the field;
On your belly you will go,
And dust you will eat
All the days of your life;
And I will put enmity
Between you and the woman,
And between your seed and her seed;
He shall bruise you on the head,
And you shall bruise him on the heel.'"
This is BIG. The serpent is representative of evil and the fruits of evil. Although he harms Eve's children (that is all of us), her seed will harm him. Yes, that would be Jesus. Please note that, although much of the Bible focuses on the male lineage and how father begat son, God focuses on Eve here. She is the beginning of the end for Satan, and Mary, another female, will physically bring that Hope into the world.
"To the woman He said,
'I will greatly multiply
Your pain in childbirth,
In pain you will bring forth children;
Yet your desire will be for your husband,
And he will rule over you.'"
So, it seems that Adam's authority over Eve wasn't truly fleshed out in the garden. Now, women will be more focused on serving their husbands, and husbands will naturally stand in the dominant role. (Side note: Check out my last post on Marriage to read how marriage reflects the Trinity.)
Then to Adam He said, “Because you have listened to the voice of your wife, and have eaten from the tree about which I commanded you, saying, ‘You shall not eat from it’;Now, men are the breadwinners for the household, which has held historically true. Adam was to give name to every being on Earth. So, he names her Eve, which is "khav-vaw" in Hebrew: life-giver. This has a double meaning that honors her and the hope she holds within her. She gives birth to the nations, sure. However, I believe he was also focused on the fact that she is the first of a line that leads directly to the true Life-Giver, Jesus. They were thrown out and are in the depths of despair, so it is at this moment Adam holds onto the hope God has given them: "...her seed; He shall bruise you (Satan) on the head." God will turn their evil back to good again one day.
Cursed is the ground because of you;
In toil you will eat of it
All the days of your life.
“Both thorns and thistles it shall grow for you;
And you will eat the plants of the field;
By the sweat of your face
You will eat bread,
Till you return to the ground,
Because from it you were taken;
For you are dust,
And to dust you shall return.'
Now the man called his wife’s name Eve, because she was the mother of all the living." Genesis 3:14-20
As time passed, there were many more notable females born to bear God's legacy. Most of them, just like the men of the Bible, serve as examples of what God and His people stand for, but let's look at the strongest women.
Ruth displayed a love and loyalty to her mother-in-law after their husbands' deaths. She stated, "For where you go I will go, and where you lodge I will lodge. Your people shall be my people, and your God my God. Where you die I will die, and there will I be buried. May the Lord do so to me and more also if anything but death parts me from you." Ruth 1:16-17 This is a great example of how one can follow the unity of the Trinity even outside of marriage. Through her actions, she shows the loyalty and permanence that God also has for us, and she is brave though she doesn't know where life may lead them next.
As mentioned in the post about submission, Esther, wife of King Ahasuerus and queen of Persia, secretly lived as a Jewish woman in a pagan court. When her blood-hungry husband was going to kill her people, she risked death by approaching him to fight for their lives. (Esther 4-5)
Hagar, an Egyptian servant, was neglected and abused for jealousy's sake. Although she was abandoned to the wilderness just as she needed support the most, soon after having her son, Hagar held onto her faith and love of God, and He pulled her and her child through those difficult circumstances. (Genesis 16-21)
Mary Magdalene is a popular name; and although people state she was a prostitute, it never states that anywhere in the Bible. She was, however, financially secure and somewhat independent for her time period, and after Jesus had delivered her from possession of demons, Mary made sure to financially support Him and His ministry. She is also a main witnesses to Jesus as she was present during the crucifixion, burial, empty tomb, and Jesus, risen again from the grave. Her importance is undeniable. (Matthew, Mark, Luke, John)
I believe Martha and Mary perfectly show two types of female disciples. Jesus visited them and their brother Lazarus in Bethany. They were both very faithful, but they were very different women. Mary sat at the feet of Jesus to converse, just like the other male disciples, while Martha scurried around serving them dinner and making Him comfortable. They were both serving Him in different ways, and Jesus expressed his joy in them both. Some of us just aren't domestic, and that's ok. (Luke, John)
There are some verses people like to pull out in order to "prove" that the Bible is misogynist, but here's a couple big ones:
"But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence." 1 Timothy 2:12
"As in all the congregations of the saints, women are to be silent in the churches. They are not permitted to speak, but must be in submission, as the Law says. If they wish to inquire about something, they are to ask their own husbands at home; for it is dishonorable for a woman to speak in the church." 1 Corinthians 14: 33-35
Yikes. But, wait. What about these verses?
"He (Apollos) began to speak boldly in the synagogue. When Priscilla and Aquila heard him, they invited him to their home and explained to him the way of God more adequately." Acts 18:26
If it isn't clear enough, Priscilla is a female, and she taught Apollos along with her husband Aquila. Unconventionally, in a culture where men are in a place of authority, Priscilla's name is mentioned before her husband's. This may mean nothing or everything, but some sources state this means she was the more prominent teacher. Paul was very confident of the couple's teaching capabilities as stated in 1 Cor. 16:19. He names them both as church leaders in Ephesus.
"I commend to your our sister Phoebe, a deacon of the church in Cenchreae. I ask you to receive her in the Lord in a way worth of his people and to give her any help she may need from you for she has been the benefactor of many people, including me ." Roman 16:1-2
Pheobe was in an important position of her church, and some believe she served in the same capacity as Paul, Apollos, Tychicus, and many others also mentioned in the Bible. The word "benefactor" is also translated as "presiding officer" in some Bibles.
How about Deborah, a prophetess, military warrior, and judge who held the greatest authority in Israel during her time. Plus, as one source states, "She is also one of the few judges of whom the Bible reports no failures."* (Judges 4,5) She was not the only prophetess in the old or new testament. Consider Miriam who was sent alongside Moses and Aaron before the Pharaoh (Micah 6:4), Huldah (2 Kings 22 & 2 Chronicles 34) who fearlessly gives a grim prophesy to a king of whom she unceremoniously refers as "the man" instead of his title ("Tell the man who sent you to me"), Isaiah's wife who gives birth to a son with an extra long name (Isaiah 8:3; Seriously, look it up.), Anna who bears witness to the baby Jesus, joyfully telling everyone of His birth (Luke 2:36-38), and the daughters of Phillip (Acts 21:8-9). A prophet or prophetess was not simply a "foreteller" as many think of them. They are people who speaks God's truth to others, typically serving as both teacher and revelator with their especially close relationship to the Creator.
There are many mentions of females in leadership or teaching positions of churches and synagogues in the New Testament. It's likely they allowed women to serve in those positions because of Jesus' attitude toward female disciples. See the many instances female disciples are spoken as following Jesus throughout Matthew, Mark, Luke, and John. Some travelled with Jesus and some stayed behind in their homes but still served Him. There were many names unmentioned, but here are those who were: Mary Magdelene, Mary Salome, Mary and Martha (What's up with all the Marys?), The Three Marys (ha!), Joanna, Susanna, Priscilla, Tabitha, Lydia, Phoebe, Junia, Trypehna, Julia, Nympha, and Apphia. Many unnamed women also received the Holy Spirit during the Pentecost. Discipleship, if you're unaware, is a student position that eventually leads to teaching. These females spread the gospel through TEACHING.
So, whatever that first verse meant (and there are many who disagree), it did NOT mean that ALL women couldn't teach. Consider it may have had something to do with the place or circumstances of which we are unaware. If the author had something against all women teaching the gospel, it sure doesn't mesh with the rest of their teachings. It's important to understand that the Bible was written in a time of extreme patriarchy where people, even women, were less likely to listen to a female (who generally had no formal education like her male peers). They were called to not even give the appearance of wrong-doing so that others would be more likely to listen to God's message through them. The females within the Bible and those who weren't, whether teacher, deacon, prophetess, or simple disciple, sometimes had to fight twice as hard against the unholy culture of their time in order to be God's light in the world.
If you ever hear that the Bible, God, or Christianity is misogynist or against females in any way, understand that the WORLD is against God and will lie in many ways to turn you against Him. Do not let them make you underestimate your place in God's will or undermine the power He has placed within you. You are the hope of the world. Women, be the light and love, and shine bright.
Sources besides the Bible:
http://newlife.id.au/equality-and-gender-issues/did-priscilla-teach-apollos/
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Female_disciples_of_Jesus
http://newlife.id.au/equality-and-gender-issues/did-priscilla-teach-apollos/
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